That is a good point, and it extends beyond kink to just any sexualization for me. Like, show ass, legs, tits, cocks, whatever if you want to and if you feel it is relevant to the story you want to tell / the feelings you want to evoke. But where it gets gross is when there’s just a normal completely non-sexualized story being told, but the cameraman is horny and looking up someone’s skirt or focusing on an ass or whatever. If your character is horny and staring at someone’s ass, sure, whatever. If the camera itself is horny it just makes me feel like I’m a creep staring at someone’s ass in an inappropriate situation. They turn the viewer into a creep in a sense, put the viewer into a creep’s shoes. Rather than having sex/arousal be within the world itself.