• dandelion (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    17 hours ago

    unrelated, but the angle of the light creates so much dimension to the writing, it looks like the pen was pressed deep into the paper and it’s so satisfying and distracting, omg

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    Could this be true for everyone? Although, admittedly, women probably have had more opportunity to develop this skill over the course of their life.

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      True, I think most people are quick to defend themselves, even if they do understand and acknowledge how they hurt someone. Can be frustrating but I hear out people’s defensive points as long as they can work on ways to reduce hurt in the future. But I, being a man, rarely bring up things that may have hurt me. My feelings can duke it out in the bottle! (unless it’s a big deal)

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          Another man chiming in here, we see posts from this community on our “all” feed frequently. Many of us don’t assume communities have gender restrictions. Would it be possible to get that rule included in posts text so we know about it when dropping in from all?

          • LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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            Thanks fire, we tried that before but we found it was a red rag to a bull with the incel types. They attacked us far more overall. And we are women only so please dont comment again 🥰

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              But … but … but … he’s a MAN! Obviously he thought of something none of the mentally deficient women who post here have thought of and possibly even TRIED! It was IMPORTANT that he break the rules to tell us how to do things the Right Way™!

              🙄

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                  And another man who thinks his (trite, oft-repeated, boring) thoughts are so important he has to break rules to express them.

                  Yep. These men are real heroes.