LadyButterfly she/her
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LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPto Trippin' Through Time@lemmy.ca•Books are generally betterEnglish3·10 hours agoI really liked the book! I really like the film too though
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneMto Lemmy Be Wholesome@lemmy.world•Maybe even give him a hatEnglish21·11 hours agoHi mate had to delete your image cos it’s not really wholesome
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneMto WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Have you ever experienced mansplaining before? if so how did you deal with it?English7·12 hours agoYep I’m guessing it’s cos it’s techy people heavy. Lots of men in tech after all
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPMto WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•What do you think of cosmetic surgery?English2·12 hours agoI agree I wouldn’t get it done for enhancement either. It’s just not my cup of tea. I’d support a friend doing it but I might raise concerns about any risks, realistic outcome etc
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPMto WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•What do you think of cosmetic surgery?English4·12 hours agoYes, the unrealistic standards gets me too. I’m in my 40s, my boob’s are saggy, my tummy is bulging and I’ve got wrinkles. Perfectly normal for my age, but social standards say this is gross. I notice it a lot with older celebs, they sometimes get work done which looks bad because they know they’ll get ripped apart for showing age. It’s awful
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPto Mental Health@lemmy.world•You really didEnglish3·14 hours agonp I got you
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneMto WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Post FlairsEnglish4·15 hours agoThis is an excellent question! On my piefed app there’s an automatic flag that comes up in the comment thread saying we’re women only. It doesn’t show on my intergalactic app though.
Sadly we’ve found highlighting it in the post title is a red rag to a bull with the Manosphere and they attack us worse shrug🤷♀️
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPMto WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Weekly chat thread 14th July English2·15 hours agoIt’s been good! But just at the dentist now oh joy. What about you?
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPMto WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Let's smash this week!English3·16 hours agoOh hell yeah!
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPMto WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Let's smash this week!English4·16 hours agoOoooh great idea
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPto Mental Health@lemmy.world•Who here was the family scapegoat?English2·18 hours agoForgetting would put you at risk, you’re doing the right thing remembering and maintaining a distance. I’m sorry they don’t see your true worth cos we really do
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPto Mental Health@lemmy.world•Who here was the family scapegoat?English1·18 hours agoExcellent work on both counts, you did what you needed to do to survive then you did what you needed to do to thrive. What was being the lost child like?
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPto Trippin' Through Time@lemmy.ca•Books are generally betterEnglish9·18 hours agoYep film is way better
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneMto WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Trust your gut instinct ALWAYSEnglish1·19 hours agoDo it! I’m going to give my finger a well earned rest as it’s knackered from repeatedly hitting the ban button
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneMto WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Trust your gut instinct ALWAYSEnglish3·19 hours agoYep there’s a world of difference between “I’m gonna exit” and shooting someone in the head. Plus we only have her word that’s what happened, he can’t tell us
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPto Mental Health@lemmy.world•Who here was the family scapegoat?English2·1 day agoThat’s really kind of you thanks 😊
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPto Mental Health@lemmy.world•Who here was the family scapegoat?English3·1 day agoThat comic was a roller coaster! I really like it thanks.
And yes that’s exactly what it was, I knew SOMETHING was wrong but at that age you can’t work it out.
It’s entirely possible your brother is doing great, people often just avoid the bad memories family bring up. Siblings are the longest relationship people usually have, and there’s always hope. Bottom line is you and me turned out to be the kind of people that would have protected us when we were younger and that’s the greatest thing either of us could ever be
“Whoever did this must be a genius”
LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPto Witchy Memes@lemmy.world•So say we allEnglish11·1 day agoThe only good type of Facebook
Thanks it doesn’t show that way for me! I’ve deleted them now. Which app are you using?