Sorry mate just got this. It’s so respectful of you to ask these questions! I really appreciate it. You’re welcome to read and we realle value support with upvotes. Sharing probably isn’t best because the incels pile on when they see our name, so you’ll probably get a lot of shit for it. But we love the fact that you’re quietly cheering us on ❤️

Haha 😄

I’m permanently in a tracksuit at home atm, sweatpants and hoody. In winter I wear a polo neck under my hoody. I pop to the local shop like that but nowhere else

I forgot !historymemes@lemmy.world

Didn’t know about them thanks subbed

Thanks so much for posting this! WomensStuff is 100% committed to LGBT inclusion. We are women only, and trans+ women and non binary are totally welcome here. Homophobia, transphobia, biphobia and gender critical is not. 🏳️‍🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈

Hey music!

See I love lemmy, we have different perspectives and we just exchange ideas and that’s that. On reddit it would be nasty.

Confirmed! This is our Dandelion

Thanks Music that’s a really nice thing to say. If it helps I’ve not staggered over any nasty stuff on either of my instances, so they feel pretty safe

Haha thanks I don’t like it that much though! I’ll trade you, I love your name 😍

Ah I picked cheesetoastie off the top of my head cos it was gender neutral so I’d get attacked less (sad but true). I then started WomensStuff so my gender was blown anyway. I never liked CheeseToastie, I prefer LadyButterfly cos I’m a girly girl. Being on different instances mean I can see some communities and groups that my other instance can’t cos not all instances are federated with other.

This is a great topic! How’s your sleep hygiene?. Half way down are some tips.

I have insomnia so they main thing I do is not look at screens from an hour or 2 before bed. I make sure I can’t see the time, self talk any stressors of the day so I process it and don’t look at my phone or tablet again.

I then watch easy sitcoms and dont go to bed till I’m nodding off. have a herbal roll on I made myself (2 drops each of geranium, ylang ylang and bergamot in 10ml carrier oil). I use that when I get in bed.

Im rigid about the routine. The time may change but the routine never does!

Yes it feels more like old school message boards where you were a proper community. It was a totally different feel back then

Thanks for telling me that. That’s a lot to juggle, you need money to survive in life. Nearly everything costs money, even water is billed and it’s sometimes horribly hard to make ends meet. Everything to make life less shit costs money. It grinds you away.

You’re being sensible and you know your limits, you know programming is good money but you’re too frazzled. Looking at alternatives is really sensible… you won’t learn well, and therefore won’t earn if you’re too frazzled to absorb programming. It’s not now or never you can put it on the back burner.

I’m glad you’re reaching out about it, it’s the right thing to do and you need and deserve our support right now. We’ve got your back

It’s fine music I wouldn’t have asked if I wasn’t ok hearing the answer. You can offload any time

Wow Aizawa you’ve done amazing. You’re alive, healthy and your mental health is far better. You’re doing so well in day to day life it’s incredible

I see it differently. Plenty of people do non training subjects and employers are rarely interested in that. Loads of people plan and do everything right but buy a product which is little use in the job market

It sounds like you feel disappointed in where you are right now. That’s not a nice feeling, it’s hard. What’s caused that disappointment?

I’m really surprised at the negativity. To me, this meme reads as “don’t blame someone for emotional dysregulation/panic etc” not “allow people to horribly mistreat others”.