I legitimately don’t know what Fraternity is and why it’s normal in America and why these dudes are standing like this.

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      And the new entrants take away from this that they get to do it to others once they’re in! Should help people understand why student debt relief is seen as inconveniencing people who already had to pay back their student loans.

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      At first its way more about having friends assigned to you and access to all the “cool” parties and all the overly intoxicated young women there. Some sororities are sometimes partnered to a frat and encourage sex with members of that frat. Sometimes its a requirement to get in.

      The best thing I’ve been told about frats is they force you to cooperate with people you’d otherwise hate, which is something I’ve heard unions do as well.

      Take me with a grain of salt though. I was never in a frat and my college forced all “Greek Life” organizations to cut national ties decades ago.

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        Some sororities are sometimes partnered to a frat and encourage sex with members of that frat.

        Fun fact: This goes back to Leland Stanford wanting to do eugenics with students at Stanford University and encouraging matchmaking to breed ubermensch by encouraging top performing students to pair up. Yall should read Palo Alto a History of California Capitalism and the World, that book is fuckin bonkers. I’ll try to find a PDF when I get home.

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        Some sororities are sometimes partnered to a frat and encourage sex with members of that frat. Sometimes its a requirement to get in.

        Excuse me, what the heck?

        Why would anyone join? And how does this not become a national scandal and get shut down?

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          Well its never a national rule so its always localized to the specific chapter when one becomes a scandal. But also Greek life is heavily institutionalized within most college systems and there are powerful alumni. Every school have a long reputation of trying to make sex scandals go away as quickly and quietly as possible.

          But also that requirement is usually presented as a challenge to the prospect to accomplish on their own. To prove you’re the right type of hot to be in our clique etc. Many young women will volunteer for this.

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            There’s also the fact that it seems like a lot of frats (at least by me) completely own their houses and have almost no ties to the schools, it’s like they have hardly any oversight. When a pledge dies (usually from alcohol) they may do something like trying to ban students from joining but they pretty much always let them back in after a few years