I want to hear all about the stuff you either don’t approve of or don’t enjoy, and why that’s the case :) Happy Sunday

        • pm_uneven_labia@lemmynsfw.com
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          14 days ago

          I actually really really really dislike age gap relationships. There were two separate instances where a woman told me she liked me but wanted to keep dating her much older boyfriend because he could simply provide more stuff. I’ve been called all kinds of names for not liking age gaps, but I’m not backing down from this.

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            14 days ago

            That’s fair. Iirc, I was actually interested in a 40 year old, even though she was quite older than me, because eh, everyone deserves a chance? But then I remembered I’m an emotional wreck, so I decided not to pursue.

            But I also have my date limit at about 25 minimum (for dating) and 22 for fun butt stuff (saying sex gets boring). I still find those kind of icky, but you have to engage with someone. I don’t think I would do anything with younger people besides give advice, NSFW memes, or praise.

            So ironicaly enough, someone 10 years older said they would not date someone 10 years younger, and I was like “what do they got that I don’t”, even though I was not even interested in them.

            So, it does not go both ways I guess.

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              14 days ago

              Hmm fair enough. I’m still a youngish virgin (23) and I’m not going to have sex with anyone unless she at least tries to do an LTR. I will straight up refuse a woman if she’s not between 21 and 25 inclusive.

            • Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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              14 days ago

              For what it’s worth, I have dated with significant age gaps in both directions. It becomes difficult simply because you’re in different places in your lives. I would recommend, for actual relationships, to continue doing what you’re doing and date roughly the same age.