I want to hear all about the stuff you either don’t approve of or don’t enjoy, and why that’s the case :) Happy Sunday

  • RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 days ago

    That’s fair. Iirc, I was actually interested in a 40 year old, even though she was quite older than me, because eh, everyone deserves a chance? But then I remembered I’m an emotional wreck, so I decided not to pursue.

    But I also have my date limit at about 25 minimum (for dating) and 22 for fun butt stuff (saying sex gets boring). I still find those kind of icky, but you have to engage with someone. I don’t think I would do anything with younger people besides give advice, NSFW memes, or praise.

    So ironicaly enough, someone 10 years older said they would not date someone 10 years younger, and I was like “what do they got that I don’t”, even though I was not even interested in them.

    So, it does not go both ways I guess.

    • Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      7 days ago

      For what it’s worth, I have dated with significant age gaps in both directions. It becomes difficult simply because you’re in different places in your lives. I would recommend, for actual relationships, to continue doing what you’re doing and date roughly the same age.

    • pm_uneven_labia@lemmynsfw.com
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      7 days ago

      Hmm fair enough. I’m still a youngish virgin (23) and I’m not going to have sex with anyone unless she at least tries to do an LTR. I will straight up refuse a woman if she’s not between 21 and 25 inclusive.