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Cake day: January 9th, 2026

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  • going through university rn and I wish I’d just done 3 years in the military out of school, then gone on to other things. Uni is incredibly lacking in structure, taking a long long time while also not keeping you very engaged with the material - I’m no longer interested in what i started studying, I’m even less interested in what I’m currently studying, doing odd jobs that don’t need a degree seems far more cost effective and better for personal growth.


  • Just because they believe it’s tasteless and disgusting doesn’t mean they’re going to attack people over it. It’s fine. Probably most people don’t support prostitution, because we see that most people do not engage with sex work in any way.

    We need to drop the idea that people - in this case, sex workers - get harmed unless 100% of society is repeating some mantra - e.g “sex work is real work” - to demonstrate their allegiance to x oppressed group. Sometimes people just don’t interact with that slice of society.


  • Ideally we shouldn’t have it, to protect sex workers. I know people say “legalise it as much as possible and they’ll be safe” but that’s not really true - people are safest when they don’t have to trade sex, and nobody should have to sell their body. Ever.

    As i’ve gotten older it seems like less of a problem though. It should be targeted / cracked down on when it helps to rout out other types of organised crime, but I don’t feel like the existence of prostitutes is causing people to cheat on their partners or anything - i think if someone is prone to doing that, they’ll find a way. [open to hearing disagreements]

    Also I feel like the way to get people to stop being prostitutes is to show compassion, like Jesus did, rather than punishing them.








  • I’ve always thought dom sounds tricky to agree groundwork with. It might be fun but I doubt i would find someone who’s idea of it/taste in domination is exactly the same as mine.

    Speaking on the master-servant stuff specifically, it seems tricky because what if one partner wants to do it all the time and the other doesn’t? You could just “go back to normal,” but I bet having treated your partner like a servant would change the way you see them a little bit.

    Since BDSM is related, I’ll mention that I don’t like a lot of the toys involved in BDSM at all, but bondage seems okay. But I also don’t think it’s necessary, and I want my partner to be enthusiastic enough about vanilla sex rather than needing to engage in these kinks. Hope that’s not considered an ignorant view of kinks.