• PKMKII [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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    22 days ago

    as soon as i turned 18 and experienced freedom i realized i was queer and was coping all my life. due to my job i also got a sense of community with people of different races and backgrounds.

    Said it before and say it again, not only is the “when you grow up and get a job, you’ll get conservative” trope wrong, it’s the complete inverse of what actually happens these days.

    • hellinkilla [they/them, they/them]@hexbear.net
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      21 days ago

      I think conservatism comes of having some sort of stability but knowing you could lose it. financially for sure but also in terms of your role, structure of life, emotional and social well being. Keep your head down and don’t screw it up!

      In this case getting out into work world was liberatory because she was able to gain mental and material independence from the patriarch. But I don’t think it’s a reliable trajectory.

      Old = conservative is stupid and has always been stupid. Lots of people get radder as they age.