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  • MystValkyrie@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    English
    8·
    4 months ago

    Yes, that’s true. There are situations where it can be a sign of respect, I agree.

    However, as a binary trans woman, it’ll never be that simple for me. If I get they/themmed by a stranger who doesn’t know, I spend the entire day worrying about what I did wrong in my presentation to not be simply referred to as “she” that time.

    This isn’t anyone’s fault. No one’s a mind-reader. And overall I think this practice is good, though not without some minor criticisms that probably aren’t worth mentioning since it would take an essay to unpack.

    • flying_sheep@lemmy.ml
      2·
      4 months ago

      For me it means “not clearly someone who gets offended when I don’t use their assigned-at-birth pronouns”.

      I use it by default for anyone reading in any way leftist or alternative or queer or in any other way cool.