I don’t disagree, there are things I’ve dropped or refused to touch because the creator is obviously a sex pest, so I’m absolutely not arguing that people shouldn’t feel put off by things that it makes complete sense to feel put off by. I have an unusually high personal tolerance for The Writer’s Barely-Disguised Fetish but I don’t judge others for having a lower tolerance. The only thing I’m actually trying to argue is that it is possible to put your own fetish in a story in a way that doesn’t come across as sex-pest-y, but that those cases will remain very rare and obscure as long as society is controlled by sex pests.
I don’t disagree, there are things I’ve dropped or refused to touch because the creator is obviously a sex pest, so I’m absolutely not arguing that people shouldn’t feel put off by things that it makes complete sense to feel put off by. I have an unusually high personal tolerance for The Writer’s Barely-Disguised Fetish but I don’t judge others for having a lower tolerance. The only thing I’m actually trying to argue is that it is possible to put your own fetish in a story in a way that doesn’t come across as sex-pest-y, but that those cases will remain very rare and obscure as long as society is controlled by sex pests.