not sure if “pervert” is the right term. maybe “kinkster” fits better?
anyhow, in what situation did you figure out mainstream vanilla ideas of sex or intimacy doesn’t rock your boat all the way?
not sure if “pervert” is the right term. maybe “kinkster” fits better?
anyhow, in what situation did you figure out mainstream vanilla ideas of sex or intimacy doesn’t rock your boat all the way?
Back in the days when Craigslist was still a thing and I was a young teenager confused about…well a lot of things, I would post ads looking to be tied up and/or heavily objectified. I had watched plenty of non-vanilla porn at that point and knew I enjoyed the themes, but the level of turned on I got by hearing how strange men wanted to use my body for their pleasure was a bit of an indication that I was a lot more submissive than I thought.