MaybeALittleBitWeird

Early 30’s and No, I do not find a random selfie to be sexual in any way.

If you’d like to engage in a sexual conversation, either flirt or present something in a sexual context that opens the door. Expecting to be doted on simply for presenting a selfie comes across as extremely narcissistic and juvenile to me personally. I don’t mean any of this a personal attack on you, just my general views based on the question you’ve asked.

They were nsfw posts. If you have that disabled in your settings then you won’t see them when you check her profile.

That’s definitely also a part of it. On local there’s not enough content if you browse daily to really need to curate a feed honestly. Based on conversations from the instance in the past, most users browse by ‘hot’ or ‘new’. Posting the same image more than 3-4 times is definitely frowned upon and will get you a bad reputation if you do it consistently. Downvotes are coming from users on her home instance and the greater community though.

The greater Lemmy community isn’t particularly nice about NSFW material in general. People will downvote because they don’t want to see NSFW(even though you can disable it), because you don’t play into their personal sexual/aesthetic preferences, or for just very little real reason at all because they need to vote to mark a post as read. Don’t let it get to you.

Lemmynsfw has downvotes completely disabled so I can’t see the severity of downvotes for your posts, but do yourself a favor and make an account on this instance so you don’t need to worry about it. This change was put in place here for a very good reason.

Truthfully this is most things for me. My long-term partner is a bit unadventurous whereas I am far more open-minded(outside of hard limits). The times we’ve completed kink inventories together have explicitly highlighted this fact and it’s been a bit disappointing on the kinky front.

Allyship is demonstrated through your actions. Your action in posting this(and pretty much every other post of yours) is very far from being an Ally and actually shows you really don’t know a thing about the community or people you claim to respect.

For my partner, I prefer the tried and true deep inside them, whatever orifice - it doesn’t matter.

For myself, unless they cum inside me, I want to be able to see them cumming on me or it’s not satisfying. I prefer in my mouth though.

Rather than saying some very disparaging things about you and your “evil mind,” I’m going to hold my tongue. Instead I’m just going to ask you, do you think it’s possible to take a picture of your own asshole without having most of your taint in clear view?

How is that mentally fucked up? Do you also consider a woman taking pics of her pussy fucked up as well?

A few days ago to send some pics 😅