I’ll go first. After your turn the water off in the shower but before you get out, use your hands to wipe off any standing water on your body. Maybe even give your legs a bit of a shake. This way, you won’t drip nearly as much when you get out, keeping the floor and your towel drier.

  • Captain Aggravated
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    Keep an eye on your own morale. You’d be amazed how much even a strategically placed snack will do for your future.

  • Take a lunch break, both of those things, lunch and a break. Do anything other than work and sit down to eat something so you can enjoy it. Take a break in the middle of the day, you’re worth it and you deserve it.

  • @tetris11@lemmy.ml
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    Smalltalk starter pack:

    • (during the day) “So how’s your day going?”
    • (in the evening) “So how was your day?”
    • (before the weekend) “what you up to on Saturday?”
    • (before the week) “what’s your week looking like?”

    Easy small repeatable things that open people up. I use it on everyone, and I make sure that I care about the answer because I’m genuinely curuous

  • @WrenFeathers@lemmy.world
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    There is nuance to nearly everthing that exists. All of life happens with the grey area- perfectly balanced between the black and white boundaries most people refuse to look away from.

  • @Agent641@lemmy.world
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    If you shower at the gym, you don’t need a whole bath towel to dry yourself. A regular hand towel is sufficient, and it takes up way less room in your gym bag.

    • @667
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      Bonus points for those really thin microfiber types. You wring them out as you go to get the majority of water off your body, the rest air dried quite quickly after that.

    • @Test_Tickles@lemmynsfw.com
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      Are you talking about one of the erasers that is like a piece of industrial carpet on the bottom, or the other type that’s foamy rubber (like what the sole of a running shoe is made of)?

  • @cheeseburger@lemmy.ca
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    Hide an extra roll of toilet paper somewhere in the the bathroom, use for emergencies, tell no one. I smash one flat and put it up behind the false drawer covering the vanity sink.

    • @Valmond@lemmy.world
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      Ah, the turkish cigarette trick!

      We called it that back in the day, because turkish cigarettes were the absolute worst smoke you could have. But in need, a friend indeed…

      • @RangerJosie@lemmy.world
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        God I miss smoking. I quit near as not 20 years ago after a parent died of lung cancer, and still every once in a while I could f’kin eat one whole. You can “quit” but the craving never really goes away.

        Forgot my vape at home while out in town a few months ago. Stress and shit happened. Bummed a dart off the guy working on my truck. And it was like I never quit. It was so good. Words cant describe. Shit was amazing. But it was just the one. I’ve stayed quit. Only because of my family tho. Not like risk of lung cancer really matters anymore. WWIII, climate collapse, etc. Very few of us are gonna live long enough to die of natural causes.

        • @Valmond@lemmy.world
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          As a smoker who quit before ecigs, if you do quit nicotine, it’s hard. But it gets easier every day. Now it’s just a long forgotten memory.

            • @anamethatisnt@lemmy.world
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              As someone who mixed his own vape fluids and slowly lowered the nicotine to ~1.8mg/ml and then went cold turkey first on nicotine and then also on vaping. The craving for a cigarette full of tar is still there once in a while when drinking or when completely stressed out.

              Most of the time it’s my brain wanting “5 minutes of fresh air” while working on a problem or thinking back about a good time such as a beer, a smoke and good company during a backyard bbq. I can do those things without the nicotine, and I do.
              It’s rare now though, especially compared to how it was when I was still vaping nicotine.

  • @Chonk@lemmy.world
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    Always keep stock of water in an extra overhead tank or atleast an extra lid bucket bathrooms for emergency when tap water ran out. Just make sure to change water every two weeks to prevent bug parties in it.

    If you don’t have kettle then have a lot of water bottles especially that can store warm drinking water for long time, to never run short of warm drinking water in winter.

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      I try to always keep 30L to 50L of water safely stored in the food cellar.
      If you store it properly it can stay safe and drinkable for years, I replace it about once a year though.

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      And I’m going to add something that helps me talk to my therapist: “If it’s mentionable, it’s manageable.”

      After you’ve tried to deal with something yourself and haven’t succeeded, telling someone about what’s going on, no matter how unimportant or embarrassing it feels, is the first step to living a life of contentment.

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    For the love of God. Get enough sleep. That shit will catch up to you when you’re older.

    • After dealing with babies who didn’t want to sleep or sleep for long for a few years, I found nothing that can reverse or help with the effects. Fuuuuuuuck. Get it where you can.

    • ThoGot
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      That shit will catch up to you when you’re older.

      Especially as one of the risk factors for dementia is sleep deprivation

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      I’m a runner and I can definitely tell that the largest determining factor for my physical performance isn’t diet, days off, etc; it’s sleep. Sleep is SO important.

      Edit: The others are still very important, but sleep is paramount.

  • @khannie@lemmy.world
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    If a child gives you anything, anything at all, blade of grass, shell at the seaside, whatever - take it with real, heartfelt thanks. It is all they have to give.

    • Call me Lenny/Leni
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      My older sister gave my dad a dead bird she found when she was little. It ranks among the highest I’ve ever heard anyone shriek.

  • @AgentGrimstone@lemmy.world
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    If you’re not going to soak your dishes, at least splash some water on them and leave them upside down. The food bits won’t harden as much and you won’t have to scrub as hard.

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    If you’re ever randomly angry or sad for reasons that are out of your control and not the fault of anyone around you, make a small announcement. Something as simple as “I’m upset about X, sorry if it seems like I’m being short or snappy with anyone.”

    • @grrgyle@slrpnk.net
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      Identifying and vocalizing your feelings is superpower. Good step toward living in a sincere manner. Obviously there are limits (Kant look away), but it makes life much easier when you aren’t worried about being cool and cagey.

  • @whotookkarl@lemmy.world
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    Do what you think is right, but actually take some time to determine if it’s actually right or just feels right

    Don’t wait for someone else to challenge your beliefs do it yourself first, use the Socratic method if you need a starting point

    Rewarding or ignoring bad behavior is the same as encouraging bad behavior

    Leave places/systems in the same or better state than you encounter them

    Don’t play rigged games

    Keep a bowl by the door for keys and loose change

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      Awesome, just don’t keep the keys in open. Any easily accessible closed container or cabinet drawer would be sufficient.