• FoolsQuartz@lemmynsfw.comOP
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    14 days ago

    I’ve always thought dom sounds tricky to agree groundwork with. It might be fun but I doubt i would find someone who’s idea of it/taste in domination is exactly the same as mine.

    Speaking on the master-servant stuff specifically, it seems tricky because what if one partner wants to do it all the time and the other doesn’t? You could just “go back to normal,” but I bet having treated your partner like a servant would change the way you see them a little bit.

    Since BDSM is related, I’ll mention that I don’t like a lot of the toys involved in BDSM at all, but bondage seems okay. But I also don’t think it’s necessary, and I want my partner to be enthusiastic enough about vanilla sex rather than needing to engage in these kinks. Hope that’s not considered an ignorant view of kinks.