Sorry for a challenging and maybe weird question.
It is something my parents engaged in a lot while I was growing up (presumably unknowingly), and it’s also a recurring point of discussion online, wherever I go.
On the internet, most people seem to regard it as very traumatic, though my own experience of it wasn’t. It was more just something that happened, and most of the time I’d be sleeping through it anyway. I also feel that any potential trauma here is mitigated by raising your child with a generally healthy knowledge of sexuality.
A common comment on the topic is that people can “just do it quietly,” but I’m inclined to think that some people do need to react very loudly to sexual stimulation.
Interested to hear what everyone else’s experiences, or views on the matter, are. EDIT: If the question interests you, here’s a guardian advice column post with extensive comments on the matter: “I can’t climax quietly and I’m worried my teenage kids will hear me.”
My parents would just turn the music up, but the problem was after a while we learned exactly what it meant every time they played Enter Sandman loud. Mum would tell us she was just vocalizing - yeah I guess that’s the word.
It got to be the song of fucking in that house and after a while they knew that we knew. So they changed it up and started playing Pantera instead. Fucking Gen X strikes again.
Everybody starts as a cream pie anyway and kids are going to hear something at some point, not sure how much it matters.
Your parents have good fuck music.