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What good lessons do you remember, like just generally?

If you post more than lurk (or even do just posting and no lurking) its a bit easier because you get to sort of curate your audience and its expectations way more.

Honestly, i spend little to no time actually lurking, I think Lemmy for me is less lurk-friendly because the content is still relatively small-pipeline compared to like Reddits possible subreddit audience sizes but I’m also very intentional reader when it comes to new content I feel like wading thru

Does your immediate family have a generally happy and harmonius history or the opposite?

Healthy gamer, Dr K is a gem

Whats the plan?

Ya, i struggled with that too initially and I came to the result its just to overstimulating being around her, I have to worry about the tiniest thing exploding and not willing to live my life dancing around my own feelings and needs for someone who in truth really just give a shit about them. She cant or wont or something else but I just dont care.

We’re all adults who get to make choices about how we allocate our time and resources and who with and there’s just no value in trying anymore. It sounds sad but its actually really positive, like Louis CK talking about not to say im so sory when your friends divorce. Its a good thing, no happy couple has ever gotten divorced

Its only ever a sad ending for whoever was benefitting from the financial or other associated gravy trains that got free shit for tormenting you. Parties over and its sad for them but I will never be sad for them, i am indifferent to how they are or what comes of them. People mostly only change when they have to and the rest of their story is up to them to write and live alone

Love a happy ending :) Was there a last straw or was it a more gradual shift? Like, what was different about your last interaction?

Also, List 3 things you can do that would be consistent and help towards attaining those outcomes

Outcome 1: an always reasonably clean, organized home space

= the same level of clean and organized that I would have had to have scrambled to clean every time to have it be minimally presentable for a reasonable hypothetical fellow visitor

1. Everything has a place and by the end of the day/before bed, do a sweep thru place to clear all the surfaces and everywhere else until everything is back in its place. I’ll know its in its place because the next time i need it, especially if I need it during a phone call, I will know where to get it immediately, and if its in the wrong place, i will often lose track of it and not have it available regularly

2. Stop buying new stuff, or at least dispose of multiple old things to compensate. Sometimes the best firstline strategy is dont add to an untenable state, that can be a force for good and a sufficient effort in itself. Make deals with yourself that get you both more of what you want at the expense of what you dont want

3. Reduce friction by making it easy to do the things that promote clean and organized state Ask: why does this task overwhelm or bother me, is there an example of something you did before that was a positive and that you could turn to again?

Outcome 2:

How do you get the best audio possible, something about it having to be 1080p for the least amount of compression?

Whats the most mellow organ sound/playing or example you know of for organ? Like resonant and enveloping but mellow timbre and probably lower register for pitch

Dont know if this is similar or relevant but I was using an online free yt-dlp website and the schtick is you just paste the link for a video or playlist and it formats everything and runs yt-dlp on their server and people can download the files among all the other files of other people doing the same thing or god knows what but it was sort of fascinating.

Might try it out again just to people/file watch. I find these kind of community/public computer stuff absolutely fascinating

You cant really rely on it but it makes sense to be selective for apps that make an effort to No(t) Data Collected where its possible.

A more pragmatic strategy is to disable cellular data and see if it can run without internet or wifi. Apps that cant that have no actual reason it cant be done locally are out immediately but you have to buy or download it to test first i suppose.

I guess I mean to say no data collected is a good sign but I still verify and even any of this is no herge against a company who’s business is selling out your interests when they and the unaware could have almost certainly made a better choice. Vote with your money and your feet or thumbs

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Thatz why they say car practice. Cuz they just practicin’…

Just be mindful about who is advocating for what. If someone is randomly talking about parasites and hawking some cure that only they know about and that the guverment aint want you to find out about, its probably a grift

Not sure but prescient and also reminds me of “abyss gazing back”

Sleeps’ are deeply strange. Its kinda crazy they are legal, much better ways to sleep that dont turn the lights out and autopilot on. Fascinating stuff

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Its literally a selfish thing for me cuz its just whatever im curious about haha but glad people find some enjoyment. Its really no work at all altho i might have to lay back a bit with the engagement after I spout it out for a bit ;)

its certainly easier to learn things intentionally or unintentionally by just engaging directly with it irl real time