

Based on your description, “pan” seems appropriate. I don’t think ratios really matter when it comes to this kind of terminology. You appear to be, to varying degrees, attracted to people regardless of their sex or gender.
That said, I’m not sure what the distinction is between “pan” and “omni”.
You could try opening up the Resource Monitor and checking out the Network tab:
It might have the same issue (grouping everything under the VPN .exe), but it’s worth a shot.