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Cake day: July 8th, 2023
  • reddwarf@feddit.nltoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world•*Permanently Deleted*
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    3 months ago

    Mom was 18, Dad 20 when they had my brother.
    Mom was 20,Dad was 22 when they had me.

    Mom was a narcissist, dad a weakling so no standing up for himself or the kids.
    They lived as teens/tweens and had no handle on life nor how to raise kids.
    One set of awesome grandparents, one set that severed contact with me and my brother 3 times.
    I tried to kill myself at 13.

    Dad severed contacts with me and my brother twice.

    Mom got alzheimer at 58 and died soon after, was not allowed to attend funeral.

    All in all I like my current life and have a great partner and two lovely kids. Awesome group of friends as well.

    They should have never met, never have kids and certainly not at that age. It fucked me up something fierce.

  • reddwarf@feddit.nltoWorld News@lemmy.world•Ukraine's Zelenskyy says the security of the world is at stake amid Russia war: "The threat is real"English
    271·
    3 months ago

    There is a way for this to stop and you probably agree. Russia just has to stop and go home. That’s it, simple. But they will not. This indicates that the aggressor will not stop, whatever you do. You conceding by stopping yourself and handing over what the aggressor wants will not stop this war.

    To put it simple: you have no control over what the aggressor does.

    What you do control though is your own actions. And this entails to make the aggressor see that their actions are not tolerated. How do you achieve this proverbial “line in the sand”? By not letting them cross that line. What needs to be done to achieve that goal? By using force.

    Bullies will not stop until you stop their aggression.

    Your wish to “just stop already, concede and give in, go for a cease fire” will not deter nor stop the aggressor. History has shown us this simple fact time and time again. Your desire and wish for peace is noble and understandable but not realistic. I think deep down you know or realize this but let your desire for peace cloud this realization.

    We are strange and weird monkeys as a species, having a moral concept or desire does not overcome this fact. Deal with it you must or your fellow monkeys will take your bananas and will give not two shits on how you feel or what your desires are.

  • reddwarf@feddit.nltoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world•Are there any lemmy web-ui clients that allow filtering by keyword yet?
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    4 months ago

    Yep, you can. Came as a surprise to me as well at the time but you definitely can.

    You probably got this already if you look ta the Tesseract page and how this all works but I wanted to share with you my docker-compose file to give you an idea how I did it. I find it helpful to look at examples of others sometimes.

    Good luck!

    # Docker Compose for : Tesseract
# This is a GUI frontend local hosted for Lemmy

services:
  tesseract:
    image: ghcr.io/asimons04/tesseract:latest
    container_name: tesseract
    restart: always
    environment:
      # The domain of Tesseract's 'default' instance. 
      # This is the only required config variable
      - PUBLIC_INSTANCE_URL=feddit.nl
      
      # By default, Tesseract locks itself to the configured instance. 
      # To allow users to add accounts from other instances, set this to false.
      - PUBLIC_LOCK_TO_INSTANCE=false
      
      # Feed, feed sort, and comment sort settings
      - PUBLIC_DEFAULT_FEED=Subscribed
      - PUBLIC_DEFAULT_FEED_SORT=Hot
      - PUBLIC_DEFAULT_COMMENT_SORT=Hot

      # Default to Dark Theme instead of "System"
      - PUBLIC_THEME=System

      # Media Proxying
      # Enable the media proxying module and make it available for use.  
      # It is disabled by default.
      - PUBLIC_ENABLE_MEDIA_PROXY=true
      
      # List of domains that should not be proxied (content reasons, because they won't 
      # work with the proxy, etc)
      - PUBLIC_MEDIA_PROXY_BLACKLIST=mintboard.org,iili.io,img.shields.io
      - PUBLIC_ENABLE_MEDIA_PROXY_LOCAL=true
      
      # Pre-set the "Use media proxy" setting for all users.  
      # If set to false (default), users will need to go into Settings->Media 
      # to enable image proxying.
      - PUBLIC_ENABLE_USER_MEDIA_PROXY=true

      # Media Caching; disabled by default. Enabled and configured here.
      - PUBLIC_ENABLE_MEDIA_CACHE=true
      - PUBLIC_ENABLE_MEDIA_CACHE_LOCAL=true
      - PUBLIC_MEDIA_CACHE_DURATION=4320
      - PUBLIC_MEDIA_CACHE_KEEP_HOT_ITEMS=true
      - PUBLIC_MEDIA_CACHE_MAX_SIZE=500
      - PUBLIC_MEDIA_CACHE_HOUSEKEEP_INTERVAL=5
      - PUBLIC_MEDIA_CACHE_HOUSEKEEP_STARTUP=true
      
      # List of Invidious/Piped domains which should be used for detection. 
      # See docs/CustomYoutubeFrontends.md for more in fo.
      - |-
        PUBLIC_CUSTOM_INVIDIOUS=
          i.devol.it,
          piped.adminforge.de
      
      # List of instances that will be pre-populated into the instance selector on the 
      # community explorer page. 
      # The default instance is included by default and does not need to be listed here.
      - |-
        PUBLIC_FEATURED_INSTANCES=
          lemmy.world,
          mander.xyz,
          programming.dev,
          lemm.ee,
          lemmy.ca,
          lemmy.cafe,
          literature.cafe,
          sh.itjust.works,
          lemmy.blahaj.zone,
          slrpnk.net,
          startrek.website,
          beehaw.org,
          sopuli.xyz,
          lemmy.zip
    
    # Tesseract uses /app/cache inside the container to persist lookups and for the media cache. 
    # This will work without a volume, but anything cached will not persist after the container is restarted.
    
    # Note:  The host directory must be owned by UID/GID 1000.
    volumes:
      - ./cache:/app/cache
    
    # Bind to port 8081 instead of the container's default port of 3000
    ports:
      - 8081:3000