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Cake day: September 16th, 2025

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  • You’re not clear on why you’re posting this, or what you want out of people’s responses.

    You’re not clear on why you think you’re a bad friend, or why you’d be a burden to others just by interacting with them.

    You’re not clear on what you know you have to do, but just aren’t doing.

    Just saying/writing/admitting to something is helpful, because it forces you to confront it (and will be brought up in therapy anyway, so might as well do the prep work now). Just saying outloud the answers might make you realized how silly they are, or how they’re all connected, or what your priorities really are.

    I apologize if this goes against your request, but as I mentioned, you were clear with your expectations.

    I can related to your gas station metaphor, I feel that constantly due to gestures broadly at the world.

    You’re too young to give up on marriage and parenthood, raw data shows that’s not true, you’re not even running behind yet.

    And making one last assumption, but being distant or isolating yourself doesn’t make you a bad friend, and asking for help doesn’t either, only always asking for help and never asking about them does.







  • You have no idea how grateful I am to you right now.

    This has been on my personal project backlog for awhile now. I have run into so many issues and headaches with possible rdp or vnc solutions for my desired use case, especially with wayland being a must have.

    I have recently fell in love with ssh and was planning on looking more into waypipe as a possible route to take as I kept seeing it recommended, but the examples and documentation i found was always “generic” or surface level and didn’t have enough of the pieces I needed to scrape together.

    I’ve been putting it off due to only having surface level knowledge about all the pieces, and you merged like 10 of them in one go.

    My biggest question to you is what is performance like? Like picture quality, audio delay, and latency/responsiveness around mouse and keyboard inputs? How does it compare to using something like an ipkvm, rdp, rust desktop, etc?