

I had to headspace some spark plugs recently which not being a car guy, I did not know was done by prying the prongs back with essentially a specialized bottle opener and then tapping them down if you went too far. When I bent one too far and had to tap it back down to line up to 100ths or 1000ths of an inch you better believe I felt like I was channeling the ancestors.
<<cracks knuckles>> Aww yeah time for me to cishetorally weigh in on this.
1b. Boys in our culture are brought up with at least two important rules of masculinity which is 1- don’t be a girl and 2- don’t be gay. Boys (or adults, shamefully) calling other boys girls as an insult is 100% part of teasing & bullying and teaching gendered behavior. There is no way there was not a time in this man’s life when calling him a girl was fighting words.
boobs and genitalsprimary and secondary sexual characteristics feels a bit reductive and objectifying. A straight man likes women (allegedly) and knows how to interact romantically with a woman, and if he were attracted to a trans-woman then her anatomy is what it is. Whereas for a straight man in relation to a to a trans-man, well it doesn’t matter what his anatomy is because he wouldn’t know how to interact romantically with another fella.