That’s really interesting! Maybe it is a pheromone thing, haha. I totally get that not quite conscious thing though.
I admit I’m not sure what you mean by “laundry musk.” I shy away from any kind of applied fragrance because they tend to be overwhelming to me (I don’t even really like unscented deodorants becaise they still smell like…idk, lemongrass?), so maybe I’m just unfamiliar with the term.
I feel this, I’m the same way with my partner!
Yeah for me at least, it’s not so much musk as it is some quality that’s almost not even a smell, but just kind of a rich warmth that comes off of some people. Deodorants and colognes kind of obliterate it, which is a shame. It’s hard to describe it, but it just smells very human and comforting.
Not to say smell itself never excites me. I have a friend I go down on occasionally who is festiduously clean, but the way his balls smell when he’s turned on is like catnip for me. Like I can sense how turned on he is by the scent, it’s strange.
Encouragement and a clear sign that they’re enjoying it as much as I am. When my partner begs me to cum in them, that can be enough to drive me right over the edge.
Nipples. A lot of people seem to prefer biting them, bit I like light touch more.
Ugh, yes, I live for that, I wish I got to smell it more often