Have a bunch of sexual slaves at my disposal. Have used it as inspiration and as fantasy many times, but I think in real life I would have a hard time being dominant. Also in our relationship we are both quite dominant and neither would ever be the sub, so that won’t be doable even in the sense of just one slave, let alone a few.
I’ve had a few different ones over the years, one of those tiny eggs, nice and easy to hide but not the best experience and theoretically for very few uses, quite a waste in that sense but mine was in good condition for a while. Then some knock off brand or at least less known that was closer in size to the flash light ones and it was OK. When that one was a bit older I got a new one, more expensive, bigger, and official. The size is at the point where it gets a bit more uncomfortable to use but still fine, definitely would never want a bigger or heavier thing. Harder to hide too, if you want something less conspicuous. The feeling and the material is great though, while the previous one was a bit less nice. In all the cases I’d consider them to give a better feeling than just the hand and definitely don’t regret any of them. They can be expensive but last quite well if well taken care of.
The cleaning is the one step to consider. It’s not like super difficult to clean but you need to make sure it is clean and dry to avoid issues. The only reason I wouldn’t use it is if I know I don’t have the time to clean it up properly.
Wait wait wait, so instead of a dick I’d have a vagina, but no boobs? I’d still keep my beard and be bald? What does this mean in reproductive terms? Would I get periods now? This is terrible what the heck is going on I need medical help urgently! Did my dick disappear or just fall off? Is it still in my pants? That would be traumatic as fuck!
Yeah, I’ve considered the idea of looking for a sub for both of us, but it has never really been a priority and my partner is quite vanilla all things considered, but at least we agree that if it would ever happen it would be a woman as she is at least sexually bi.
While I consider myself more on the dom side, I’ve never experienced much on it so it feels daunting to have someone trust you that way but also depend on you. It is a mental barrier that would block me I’m afraid if I tried it. And as you put it, also a lot of work. For the moment, I’m OK leaving it as fantasy, not all fantasies need to be achieved :)