If you want to dodge deathgrip, swap to humping instead of stroking. It’s not absolute but it’s better for that particular issue.

But muh parents’ rights! /s

Or rippling. Or, if it’s a ring that grips situation, plunging in and out of itself.

How kinky? How much time in your day is spent in sexual fantasy? And what kind?

What was it like the first time you ever tried a bit of exhibitionism?

I’m gonna go with ‘it depends.’ Do I get any assurances? Do I get control? I might want hazard pay under some circumstances, but if terms are good, the price would be more possible.