Aargh.

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Cake day: March 16th, 2026

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  • Delete the apps from your phone.

    No need to delete the accounts if you think those are something you want to keep. You can still use the browser versions of them. Those browser versions suck, that will make you want to use them less (hopefully, don’t know how addicted you are). The more you get frustrated with using the things, the less you want to use them. Its like making cigarettes taste absolutely horrible and disgusting in order to not want to smoke them.

    Or leave your phone somewhere that you cant reach. On top of your bookshelf, in your clothes closet, kitchen. Make it so that there is barriers, however small, to using them. You could go to extremes and lock it in a safe that only your mom has access to. Or you could install one of those apps that lock you out for a certain period of time.

    Leave your phone home and go take a walk. Walk to the library, read some magazines, newspapers or books there. Get a mp3 player, put some music, podcasts or audiobooks in it and go for a walk.

    Barriers are the thing. You don’t have to lock yourself out of the devices, apps and services. Just make using them slightly inconvenient. Then raise the inconvenience levels bit by bit.

    You are just stuck in a routine. Break the routine, break the addiction.

    https://no-mita-nyt-taas.neocities.org/Ditch_apps


  • Hehe. My black metal phase wasn’t too long either though. I think I listened to it for like 6 months and me and my friends played black metal stuff for a few weeks before going back to prog rock/metal :D

    I did like a sort of full circle with the music stuff when I was aged 13-14. Started with classic rock stuff, Deep Purple, Led Zeppelin, Cream etc. Then came the punk phase, Dead Kennedys, Misfits, The Dead Milkmen and so on. Then black metal phase, the proge, then back to classic rock. All this in a period of 1-1.5 years lol






  • We played with a PC as well, though we didn’t have a joystick :) My neighbors mother was a researcher in the university so she had a powerful PC, we could run all kinds of games on that.

    Haha, I just got a flashback… We did a full play through of Escape From Monkey Island, even though we didn’t know English at the time. We just wrote down on paper which replies worked when doing the insult sword fighting. Then the rest was just figuring out the puzzles. I think it took like 18 months to get through it haha









  • Easy and insulting way of finding out how important you are to your friends is to tell them on Whatsapp “I’m done with being forced to use this spyware app, I’m moving to Signal, you can contact me there.” Then maybe reminding them a week later about this, then uninstall Whatsapp.

    Either they think you are important enough that they go through the awful trouble of spending 90 seconds of their lives installing the Signal app, or they think thats too much trouble to keep in contact with you.

    I did that, found out that my friends didn’t really care too much about me lol. A couple did and thats nice. You don’t need 735 friends anyway. Or at least I dont.


  • Good point. I did assume a western culture background.

    I don’t know what you are trying to imply with the “sex object” comment, but personally I have never had sex with a “random” person, nor have I thought about my sex partners as sex objects. They have been people I cared a lot about and wanted to connect on a deep level. Some people do think of others as objects to have sex with, but I think thats a different conversation from what is being discussed here.