Yeah… I’m not sure, she seems to acknowledge the behavior but doesn’t seem to acknowledge the severity, impact, or morality of it.

That makes sense. I mean, my sister has shown me messages from her and this friend, where the friend does indeed admit to doing this, but says “Yeah, well I only do this to people who deserve it” and stuff about people being useless.

Thanks so much, though :)

Thanks!

She keeps saying everyone hates Lena because she acts weird too (vocal stims + tics) and that she will truly like her and that everyone else will hurt her.

Isn’t this common with things like abusive relationships too? To trick the S/O into staying because they’re the only one who “understands”/“loves” them?

So it’s not just my sensitive nature to think she’s more abusive than anything?

No problem! :)

Despite living in a Spanish speaking country and moving out as an adult (18), I think my English could be better than my Spanish.

English was also my native language, though, and I was born to white American parents who spoke English natively.

My sister’s friend (age 14) won’t stop saying “What the skibidi” unironically. When she comes over, when I hear her videocalling/texting my sister, etc.

I genuinely don’t get it. What happened to just saying “what the hell?”

Asexual here. Perfect explanation. 😊

I’ll say bi/pan and Kinsey 1 :)

Thanks, I’m probably a Kinsey 1-2 or “heteroflexible/bi”

I think I might use sapphic

That makes sense

That makes a lot of sense. I might have (not gender dysphoria but) body dysmorphia and that’s why.