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  • I consider myself to be something of an anarchist, if mostly aspirationally, and I think you’ve crystallized something I’ve had a hard time putting my finger on. All the irl self-described communists I’ve met, or even socialists for that matter, spend a lot more time concerned about theory than actually improving material conditions for those around them.

    It’s always the anarchists, even if they don’t actually call themselves that, that are actually doing the thing.

    I don’t hate communists, our ultimate goals align, I might disagree with the path to get there at times, but we are aligned on outcomes.






  • So, do what you need to do for your family. But I’ll say this. I spent time looking into this last go round because I knew Biden was a temporary reprieve. I’m the parent of a trans kid, we did not leave the country for several reasons.

    The entire western world is experiencing this dramatic rise in fascism. There’s no guarantee that you will actually avoid this long term.

    Many countries (especially the UK) have draconian immigration rules, see above note about fascism.

    We ultimately decided to move to a blue state, from a red one, primarily for safety reasons, and made it happen over a couple years. We are far happier in this situation and are now able to help extract other loved ones from similar situations.

    Again, do what you need to do for yours and your family’s safety, but you’re in for a tough go of it regardless of what you choose.

    ETA: I went as far as interviewing for some jobs in Canada after building my immigration profile and starting the job search in NZ.














  • A lot of us have spent our lives masking and suppressing other issues because we were told that all of these issues were due to some kind of inherent badness. “you’re so full of capability, if only you weren’t so fucking lazy” - on repeat, for years, from everyone you love and trust.

    It fucks you up. And when you realize that if literally anyone in your life had taken a step back and helped you get the actual tools you needed (often medication, and occupational therapy) you get so sad and angry at all the waste and internalized self-hatred.

    I wasn’t diagnosed until after I’d flamed out my first couple semesters at college. First time I took medication after being diagnosed I cried. It’s taken more than a decade of therapy to undo most of the damage.