Could you comrades [endearing] please recommend me any books on brain de-worming or non-discriminatory language? Or just guides in general.

I’m sure I have lots of blind spots that I haven’t addressed and a lot of self development to do, I don’t want to hurt a comrade for me to realise what I’ve said/believed is based on, or has connotations of discriminating beliefs/language. brainworms

I’m sorry in advance if this doesn’t belong here