• MeowZedong@lemmygrad.ml
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      7 days ago

      As much as I appreciate this response, sharing it won’t change anything with them. The two people this has affected are the two most steadfast liberals I’ve ever known. They are completely bought into the ideology and won’t consider any alternative. My questioning angers them because liberalism is a big part of their ego, so to criticize their beliefs is to criticize their person.

      I guess what bothers me more is that these are the boundaries that matter to them in a relationship. They don’t want discussion, they don’t want to understand others, they want unwavering adherence to their chosen ideology and will ostracize you if you don’t give them that.

      • RedWizard [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.netOP
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        7 days ago

        My questioning angers them because liberalism is a big part of their ego, so to criticize their beliefs is to criticize their person.

        I know this too. I had friends this year distance themselves from me for the same reason.

        I was told “don’t be a stranger” which is ironic because these people had only been a stranger to me for several years. It was always up to me to check in and be included, rarely the other way around.

        c’est la vie