i’m missing a lot of apps, the ones I do find are limited or asking for monthly subscriptions.

What apps? Are they all from the Play store?

i am unable to play a downloaded mp3 unless i go through hoops&hurdles .

You can download the MP3 and play it in VLC. It’s not difficult.

i am no longer able to watch a youtube video without ads

Brave browser on iOS will block YT ads, but I’m guessing you’re not using the official YT client on your android, so that’s a moot point.

android is simpy better in terms of freedom.

But not better in keeping your data private.

Also, is the shift key broken on your phone?