• lud@lemm.ee
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    8 months ago

    I am young so I might change my mind, but I have never tried and I probably never will, since I will just fail anyway.

    If I happen to find someone by chance then that’s cool but realistically that’s never ever gonna happen, so I will be alone but that’s life.

    An average bad status quo is probably better than a failing low.

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      8 months ago

      I’m not too young and I’ve been in a good number of relationships. The best ones happen when you’re not looking for it or trying to date. It’s worth it to try I think though, a romantic relationship is unique, and even if you think you’re the worst, no one else sees you the same way you see yourself.

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      8 months ago

      That makes me sad for you. I hope you remain open to chance.

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        8 months ago

        I am open to chance, I just don’t think it will happen.

        I just doubt anything will happen unless at least some effort is spent, and that effort is better spent on something more productive and more likely to succeed.