Subjective experiences are crazy! They’re also subject to interpretation as filtered through lived experience. How many non-self righteous vegans have you met that you didn’t even clock as vegan because they didn’t mention it. You’ll never know!
And also I don’t believe you on the second point because most of us came here from reddit where ‘le narwhal bacons at midnight.’ “vegan hating” and “bacon” were the entire personality of r/all for nearly a decade.