Lied on a poll? Sure.

I am 90% sure that this only exists in college dorm rooms, and junkie flop houses. Sample size of 1, but I’m pretty sure it’s accurate.

Plenty of times.

Some were just that, where a roomie was in the room and that was all. Living room sex, or the door to the bedroom was non existent and was right across from the couch, that kind of thing.

Others were where the roomie was specifically enjoying the show because the women I was with tended towards exhibitionism since I was pretty deep into the local scene for group activity.

A few were more organized shows for a roommate’s enjoyment, during a span where I had a roommate that was very into watching. One of those times was with a girlfriend of hers that was into guys too, and we got along well enough to perform for my roomie.

Obviously, those weren’t casual roommates, or short term acquaintances.

For a while I lived with a friend that was gay, and we didn’t have much space, being young and broke at the time. Since I also didn’t have any issues with seeing men go at it (though, alas, I also wasn’t turned on by it), we tended to only bring home partners that were okay with being seen and not enjoyed lol. There were also several times where we’d both have someone over.

Over the years, most of my roommates were friends first, so I made sure to know what their boundaries were before sharing space. Luckily, being deep into the scene meant that most of my friends were from the scene. So for the ten odd years I had a roommate almost constantly, it was unusual for one to object to sex happening around them at all. Most were not only okay with it, but enjoyed it to some degree.

The few that weren’t friends first were really early on, after high school and for a brief span after college while finding the right job. Well, plus a cousin that moved to the area and needed a place while she got situated. That era was also really early into my time in the group scene, so I wasn’t often bringing people home. Hadn’t built up friendships in those circles yet.

Past the late nineties, I never lived with anyone that wasn’t either a partner or quite comfortable with (if not a part of) group sex activities in some aspect.

By the end of the early 2000s, I had been in a very bad car accident, so my group activities were curtailed heavily, as was sex in general tbh. I met and married my wife during that, and we didn’t need a roommate financially, so the only times someone stayed with us long term, they were friends or relatives. That’s the way things still are, though both of us have “retired” from non monogamy, and don’t have any desire to show off. So even if someone did live with us, we wouldn’t be doing anything significant around them.

But the decade of the nineties, roommates came and went fairly often, as did locations. Often at the same time. It wasn’t anything meant to be long term, though a few people were roomies a handful of times each.

It was a lot of fun.

I was having sex with my first GF when we were 16 as we watched a movie and her parents came in to tell her something while I was inside her under the blankets. They didn’t know. Or at least they didn’t say anything 🤷‍♂️

A bit more complicated than the question, but my (now ex) GF’s friend/ex-roommate had joined us for this big party and got really, really drunk and fell asleep on our only bed in the middle of the party. Party ends, my GF goes to bed, everyone leaves, I clean up. I thought she would be asleep on our little couch/loveseat thing, but she’s in bed with her friend.
So I go to sleep on the loveseat. At some point, GF wakes me up and pulls me into bed. We go to sleep. She’s buzzed/drunk, I’m buzzed/drunk and I’m sleeping like the dead. I wake up dehydrated with her grinding on me very slowly and I’m rock solid. I was surprised as she was normally very shy. So I whispered to her, asking if she was awake and she was sure she wanted to do this with her friend next to us. She said her friend was a really deep sleeper and too drunk to notice, but to be slow and not rock the bed.
So we did it as slowly and quietly as possible. Right before my GF came her friend woke up and used the bathroom, grabbed her bag, and left. So we had a good time finishing and I drank a lot of water. I felt bad/uncomfortable for waking up her friend by having sex.
The next week I asked my GF to apologize to her friend when they had class together and she claimed she didn’t notice but she said she was blushing really hard when she said so. So basically we were asshole hosts. Not worth it.

Did this sruvey as the more.pertinent question? What percentage had sex with their roommate while their partner was in the room ?

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One time two of my roommates (who weren’t a couple) were having sex with a third person (who wasn’t a roommate) while me, another roommate, and a guest all watched.

In college I was with a girl in the bedroom of our apartment, and my roommate and his girlfriend came in. It was dark and the window unit AC was running, so they didn’t see us or hear us. We just laid pretty still and snuggled. In a few minutes I realized they were screwing, so I put it back in and quietly went back to work. When they finished, they both fell immediately asleep, so we sneaked out and I took her home. Next day I asked roommate if he knew we were over there, and he had no idea.

It was a matter of necessity in college. I got really adept at ninja sex. Not because my college roomie cared, but because we both tried to be considerate towards each other’s sleep schedule while still continuing our lives.

He did plenty of the same, but sleep is my superpower. I’d wake up in the morning and he would have a naked woman in his bed, pile of used condoms in the trash. I didn’t hear a thing.