Being especially attracted to 18 year olds as a 40 year old is weird too. The way youth is fetishized and exploited is bad.
The physique of a 17 yo is similar but if you are attracted to that fact that she is 17, or pursuing her that’s considerably more messed up because that comes with a bunch of added power dynamics.
Years ago knew a 30ish year old guy through FB that lived close by and had a hook on some hard to find party favors, and then a 17 year old in a group we were all in came forward saying he had been trying to get nudes from her.
Anyways, I had mentioned the party favors to a friend with an estranged teenage daughter and he got upset that I wasn’t willing to go meet with the pedo aspirant to acquire some. Was recently musing he’s probably fine with the child sex trafficking on some level.
Being especially attracted to 18 year olds as a 40 year old is weird too. The way youth is fetishized and exploited is bad.
The physique of a 17 yo is similar but if you are attracted to that fact that she is 17, or pursuing her that’s considerably more messed up because that comes with a bunch of added power dynamics.
As someone near 40 with a kid I can tell you the idea of having sex with a teenager is absolutely repulsive. That’s an older child in my eyes.
Years ago knew a 30ish year old guy through FB that lived close by and had a hook on some hard to find party favors, and then a 17 year old in a group we were all in came forward saying he had been trying to get nudes from her.
Anyways, I had mentioned the party favors to a friend with an estranged teenage daughter and he got upset that I wasn’t willing to go meet with the pedo aspirant to acquire some. Was recently musing he’s probably fine with the child sex trafficking on some level.