Sci-fi & horror author, UXD, software dev, composer/engraver, gamer, seamstress/tailor, nerd, etc; she/her. Aroace.

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  • LillyPip@lemmy.catoMemes@lemmy.mlImperial soldiers be like
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    4 days ago

    I taught my son to be a conscientious objector.

    I caught hell for that, especially in conversations in my very, very small town where many people sent their kids into this meat grinder.

    I told my son he was too good for that, and some locals hate me for that. Like they thought I was saying my son was better than theirs.

    No, I just understand the system, and I’m not going to groom my kid to be chopped meat. You don’t have to do that either.

    You do you. That’s not beautiful to me, though, e: and my son is the most beautiful thing in the world to me.








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    7 days ago

    I don’t like Veteran’s Day and I’ve been called out for that.

    I do respect and appreciate veterans for what they’ve done, but I cannot respect or celebrate the military complex that has thrown people into a meat grinder and then discarded them for decades, which is what that day represents to me.

    I cannot support these wars, where people are brainwashed, used, then cast aside, to benefit elites and politicians who will never feel that pain and will literally party when dropping their bombs.

    Fuck everything about that.










  • LillyPip@lemmy.catoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldhe forgor
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    10 days ago

    Thanks. It sounds like our backgrounds are similar.

    Writing JDs for new roles I had to fill I was constantly getting them knocked back by HR.

    That’s awful. It feels really bad when you feel you’re standing in the way of people getting jobs. When you would normally feel like you might be a leftist, this sort of point can be easily exploited to make you feel bad, right?

    I don’t even want to address the rest of your points until we go over this one because it feels so important.


  • LillyPip@lemmy.catoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldhe forgor
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    11 days ago

    No, I ended up hiring under qualified people who had skills on paper but had no talent for the job, because I had to look at candidates who had ‘book’ qualifications in adjacent fields but not passion or any qualifications that actually meant anything to the specialty itself.
    This was a design and engineering job.

    e: and to be clear, our company president was famous for saying ‘specialisation is for insects’. Like that was his catchphrase.

    I’d rather teach someone with passion and interest on the job vs someone who has neither of those but with a certificate any day, and I’ve done both.